the second one coming into the household, it was almost impossible for the two of us to actually have time for ourselves. If the kids were older, I am sure any of our wonderful bay area neighbors would have been glad to keep the kids for a while when we stepped out. But, the kids were young and we were really not sure if they would have been on their own with anybody else. But here, things are quite different. Since we have my parents near by, and since they are ever so willing to watch the kids, it is so easy to get a little ‘together time’. A dinner or a drive or even a movie together! Especially a dinner, it was such a joke trying to step out with the 2 young’uns. It was so much of work to get the kids fed, that we would hardly even be left with an appetite.
Yesterday, for instance, I decided to go, meet my husband at the end of his work day. His office is half way across town. Given that we have a driver now, (I had mentioned here about hiring one) I did not have to worry about getting to the place in peak traffic. Mid-way, it began to rain. And boy, what a downpour that was!? Nothing was even visible and the roads were almost flooded. See pic below to get an idea.
But, I had no worry in the world. The kids were home with my parents and the wheel was in the driver’s hands. All I had to do was sit back and enjoy the rains! Such carefree joy! And then, when I met my hub, we went out to this nice Italian place that my husband has been insisting on taking me to. This restaurant, ‘Little Italy’, was really nice. And through the entire dinner, I was neither worried nor feeling obligated about the kids being with my parents! Here’s a pic of the dessert, only because it was lovely!
It is also this same ‘together time’ that we enjoyed in the initial years of our marriage in Calif …. that which I will always cherish. Those were some of the best years of our lives, with travels, on-the-spur-of-the-moment road trips, drives, movies, dinners etc., and to get some of that back is wonderful! Yes, the traffic is crazy, the place … noisy, and yes the roads have tons of potholes, but if you do get a little time to yourselves with a dash of romance, the rest shouldn’t matter too much. What say?
PS: To my readers who are looking for core R2I info, those posts are coming as well!